First Dates: What Not To Do, In Order To Attract Women. - An Extraordinary Guide To Acquire More Information
Let's talk about the subject of attracting women. I frequently get questions about how to attract women, or the direction to go in order to attract women.
A typical concern that men have is how to steer clear of making those critical mistakes on the first date that stops ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I'll discuss a number of them on this page.
Well, there are certain mistakes a man can make. I want to summarize the most common ones here. The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Speaking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing a lot on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.
6) Not making future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)
The first mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk all about themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he has got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a wonderful catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that's not going to be able to take care of her at all, because he isn't interested in her and does not listen to what she has to state. Not a good relationship prospect.
Another way of saying it is that guys act as if they are very interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be interested in them. Sorry guys, but it does not work exactly that way. You have to be enthusiastic about the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting persons on a date. It is hilarious! They are both so busy wanting to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering the other.
If you do not know what I am discussing, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is keen on you? Or a girl who is letting you know how cool she is, how hot she is, etc, and all sorts of other interesting issues.
Interesting leads to a lot of rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls will be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls enjoy being amused and entertained. Interesting guys are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual enjoyment and pleasure.
That's all we have room to talk about here, but you may get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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