Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend Just By Being Less Reachable And More Of A Challenge To Her
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a very high significance and she was initially irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am going to make a wild guess here, and yet could it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her little finger simply by saying the word?
I'm going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once again you must show to your ex that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think of exactly what it is like when you keep on doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You happen to be implying to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other options.
Your lady is not going to respect you again until you reject her influence over you. Luckily you are doing that now by not specifically corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure to stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. You should not be "buddies" with her, because that rewards your ex with the ongoing approval of power over you while providing her a convenient reason to stay split up. (She justifies that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any remorse she may feel.)
However, you should definitely keep her locked in with your stuff. In all likelihood lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She could get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it returned.
The best response to this is "No, not yet. The justification is because her holding onto your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.
For the up coming three weeks, you have to fully accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent guy now. Take what transpired with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You have a fantastic opportunity to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.