How To Attract Women - Mixed Indications And Flirting
When we are talking about the matter of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the question: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was interesting and valuable enough to share.
First, women have different personalities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of behavior is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to leap in.
The best way to manage this personality type is when you see it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her control how the association goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will in most cases run off.
Problem is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So sometimes you can get the impression that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you generally think ALL women are one way, modify your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will discover different personality types and perhaps one that is more compatible with you.
Now having said that, let's view it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than guys do. Men will flirt just because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to see if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a person they are only interested in being friends with.
One way to get better grip of these conditions is to look at all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.
When a lady likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you across all of the communications means. When she is only playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.
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